The Dreaded WhatsApp Message
It came at 6:17 AM on Thursday, 23rd February from Ranganath to inform us that his father, and our dear friend of six decades, Vasu was no more. On the 6th, Vasu had a stroke around midnight and fell down at his home. He was rushed to a local hospital where it was diagnosed that he had suffered a stroke and the left side of his body was paralysed. He was moved to the ICU in Apollo Hospital, Seshadripuram where, after the first few days, a brain surgery was considered and ruled out due to the impairment of his heart. He was then on palliative care and his condition steadily deteriorated. On 20th, he was moved to St. Theresa’s Hospital where he passed away in the wee hours of the 23rd.
College Days
Vasu and the members of our small WhatsApp group were BSc students at St. Joseph’s College from 1962 to 1965. Our deep friendship was forged during those three years. Much of my recollection in this blogpost is based on the great times we had then and how Vasu was an integral part of it.
Vasu was not a conformist student. Born in Ahmedabad on 17th Sept. 1943, he had studied in various schools all over India where his father T N Ranga Rao had held senior positions in the P&T Dept. of Government of India (GoI). Vasu was a ready wit with a quaint sense of humour. He preferred the last benches where he could mutter comments about the lecture or the professor much to the mirth of his classmates within earshot. This often got him into trouble with the teachers but that did not deter the irrepressible Vasu.
The one who bore the brunt of Vasu’s witticisms was Rangaraja Chetty, our Chemistry lecturer for whom English was not a strong suit. He may well have asked two of his students “to come together separately” to meet him. He is also supposed to have talked about a “colourless blue precipitate”. But under Vasu’s curation, the number of Chettyisms grew over the years. “You get out or I will ask the Principal to get out” was one of them. Vasu kept track of Chetty after the latter’s retirement. He was tickled by the fact that the pharmacy belonging to the Chetty family in the City Market area has been sold and a flourishing liquor store has come up there!
Vasu had his share of run-ins with other teachers as well. While most of them took Vasu’s muttered wisecracks in their stride or ignored the chatter in the back benches, one mathematics lecturer got upset on a particular occasion. Suspecting that Vasu was the mischief-monger, he made Vasu stand up and gave him a dressing down in open class. Not one to take things lying down, Vasu told him that he could not be blamed for the unruly behaviour of the other students and that the lecturer could always “pull him up” if he was at fault. This retort from Vasu so infuriated the lecturer that he shouted “No, I will pull you down”. We were not sure if the lecturer had misunderstood Vasu’s offer to be pulled up, but this remained an oft-recalled incident in our group.
Films
Our college had the best location for viewing English movies. Imperial, Rex, Liberty, Plaza and BRV were all within walking distance. So much so, we could rush to the theatres at 3:55 pm after our last period and watch the full movie from 4:05 skipping the ads, Indian News Reel, trailers and intermission. This helped us as our unsuspecting parents were under the impression that we were late because we had a longer-than-usual day at the college.
The other pleasure was the reruns of Hindi hit films as morning shows at deeply discounted rates at theatres like Prabhat and Vijayalakshmi in the Majestic area. If my memory serves me right, we could watch a morning show for less than 60 paise. The challenge on Saturday mornings was to finish the Chemistry practicals and rush to the theatres to see re-runs of old Hindi movies. And of course, new ones like Woh Kaun Thi, Kohraa, etc. at the regular evening shows.
Vasu had his own quirky takes on the titles of the films. In Main Nashe Mein Hoon, he would pronounce the silent n in three of the four words. Ustadon Ke Ustad became Ustad on Ek Ustad! Our classmate Jagannath was always referred to as Apna Haath Jagannath!
Cricket
In our group, all were cricket enthusiasts. In those pre-TV days, tennis ball cricket in one’s own locality was the staple diet of youngsters. 5th Block Rajajinagar, where Vasu and Kumar lived had its own cricket team of which Vasu was the captain. There were teams in Malleswaram and Vyalikaval too. Krishna who lived in Vyalikaval was a dreaded left-hand fast bowler. We would have matches between these teams with Sweet-Kara-Coffee (SKC) bets settled at CTR for Jamoon-Masala Dosa-Coffee. Vasu, I am told, had kept the ball-by-ball scores of those matches and shared them with friends in later years. He also had a good collection of cricket books, including some rare hardbacks that he had picked up in England when he visited his son Ranganath.
Music
Like many in our group, Vasu shared a fondness for Hindi film music. He was a fan of Dev Anand and the lovely songs from his films. Vasu had his own metrics to appreciate the songs we listened to. Thus, Hai Kali Kali Ke Lab Par or Tu Kahe Agar were ‘medium-pace’ songs! In later years, Vasu built up a vast collection of CDs picked up from vendors in Palika Bazar and other haunts of his. He enlarged this to include several VCDs of hit films which he would urge us all to come over and watch at his home over liquid and solid refreshments. I recall a few such sessions at his house in one of which a banker friend of his regaled us with old Hindi film songs!
Books
Vasu had a specialised taste in books. He was fond of books on the World Wars, particularly WW II. Between him and Shekar, they had devoured all the books of Louis L’Amour. Vasu was also keen on books about the building of the Indian Railways and P&T systems. We also exchanged books on Hindi films, musicians and actors.
Sense of Humour
Vasu was quick-witted and had the uncanny ability to pun and see the comical side of things. B R Ashwathnarayna Rao, the Sociology lecturer in college was for Vasu, ‘BRA’ Rao. A related one brought in the British award of OBE. Vasu liked to play with the names of our classmates too. Parthasarathy was Sarthaparathy and Arul Raj became Arul Jar! When GoI came up with Hindi names for its corporations, Vasu asked why not Bharat Thel instead of Indian Oil? He was vindicated when, after nationalisation in 1976, Burmah Shell became Bharat Petroleum! It would have been interesting to prod Vasu on his take on the numerous acronyms for current Government of India schemes like Uday, Udaan, Sehat, etc.
The Human Being
Underneath the above facets of his personality, Vasu’s was a warm heart that beat for others. A long-time resident of Rajajinagar, he had numerous friends and admirers there. Bhupat recalls how he was there to help each and every one of them in times of need. Shekar remembers that Vasu would be ready with a chocolate for his granddaughter when he picked her up from the school next to Vasu’s house.
Among us classmates, Vasu had the widest circle of friends and he kept in touch with all of them. He had collected the addresses and telephone numbers of many of them not only in cities like Hyderabad (‘Prof.’ Chandran) and Kolkata (Gomes) but also in the USA and Canada.
Vasu was a tireless champion of the rights of the staff in banks. He was Vice-President of Canara Bank Officers’ Association (CBOA). He continued as Central Committee Member after his retirement. In that capacity, he travelled extensively all over India to educate serving officials, lobby with Government of India and brief lawyers with the ultimate aim of getting a fair pension deal for bank employees, including VRS optees. He was bitter that there was not enough honesty and integrity in the system to get this done.
Gaampara Gumpu and its Unfinished Agenda
That is our compact WhatsApp group put together by Kesari with Vasu, Kumar, Shekar, Bhupat, Krishna, Prasanna, Saikumar and myself as members. The Gumpu did stay in touch on a daily basis and even managed a few lunch get-togethers. Covid-19 put paid to all that. We tried to meet online quite a few times but that did not really click. It only made us draw up plans on how we would catch up after the pandemic is over. Vasu led these discussions with many practical suggestions. He was all for a road trip to the Malnad area covering Hassan, Shivamogga, etc. He had friends everywhere who could take care of the accommodation, etc.
Farewell, Dear Friend
I last spoke to Vasu on 30th January. He had called me to enquire about the family of my brother Viji who had passed away in March last year. I told him that my sister-in-law’s family pension is settled and that she is in Thane with her daughter. “Eno, Vijina Nenappu Nannannu Khadthayidhe” were his last words, as we ended the call. Krishna tells me that Vasu had called him up on 3rd February and updated him on Sudha’s surgery and extracted a promise that all of us would get together soon at his home.
We did get together on the 23rd. But Vasu who was the life and soul of Gaampara Gumpu was there only in spirit. Farewell, dear friend. With your unique sense of humour, may you spread laughter and good cheer in the other world you have left us for. Their gain is our irreparable loss!
Rishta dil se dil ke aitbaar ka,
Zinda hai hamhi se naam pyaar ka,
Ke mar ke bhi kisi ko yaad ayenge,
Kisike ansuon mein muskuraayenge,
Kahega phool har kali se baar baar,
Jina isika naam hai!
S. Krishna Kumar
27th February, 2023,
Bengaluru
Blog # 56